What I’m getting ready to share with you on the next few pages is simply just pure GOLD. And don’t take any of this lightly…there are REASONS why people succeed and people fail and the reasons are based upon fundamental principles that apply to each and every single one of us.
We all have the same opportunities and information available to us regardless of our financial situation, education and backgrounds. The difference is taking ACTION.
Two people could be reading this right now…one reads it and doesn’t take any action at all and makes excuses as to why it can’t be done: “It’s a scam.” “If it were true, EVERYONE would be doing it!” “It’s too much hard work.” Needless to say, these guys FAIL and the funny thing is…they CONTINUE to complain and make excuses for themselves and their current situation and wind up blaming other things except themselves. I’m sorry to say this…but that’s just pure INSANITY!
On the other hand, another person takes the information I’m sharing and RUNS WITH IT and although they don’t create a million dollars the next day, they eventually reach their goals and DREAMS in life. Why? Again, they are essential principles that govern true success and if taken action upon, will reap the results that come with applying such knowledge. So enough of the rant, what areas do you need to be taking care of? I’m glad you asked.
Here are the six areas you NEED to be taking action on right now to set yourself on the true path of success:
1. Mistakes: Embrace mistakes and learn from them. You need to have the ability to look at your mistakes and find out what has gone wrong. You should see each ‘Mistake’ as a stepping-stone to your success. Remember Thomas Edison? Man, that guy tested thousands of different materials before finding a suitable filament for the incandescent light bulb. Each ‘Mistake’ brought him one step closer to the end result.
So instead of going “Woe is me…I’ll NEVER learn this!” or “This business is a scam, I quit!” It’s way better to pick yourself up and TRY AGAIN. By now you’re probably saying “Well, What if I try again and it doesn’t work?” All I can say to that is you got an education. You know what DOESN’T work and the next time you attempt the same thing…you’ll do it differently and therefore reap different results. By far, EDUCATION whether it be bought, taught or absorbed through experience is the BIGGEST money-making practice you could ever have in your arsenal…I’m not kidding you. In other words, instead of getting frustrated with your supposed ‘Mistakes’ and ‘Failures’…GET EXCITED because you’ll learn, have breakthroughs and experience many ‘A-ha!’ paradigm shifts as a result of them occurring.
2. Acceptance: When something good or bad happens, you have to be able to accept it and move on. You will never get anywhere if you’re always wondering what could have happened if you hadn’t done this or if you had done that.
For example, you spend hours following up with a hot prospect only to hear that your business isn’t for them. Instead of crying over spilled milk and thinking “I should’ve done this.” Or “I could’ve said that.” Just accept it because it’s REALITY. The more time you spend punishing yourself for events that have already happened and are no longer in your control…the more time is being wasted on what you could be doing…which is building your business! You have to learn to accept the good with the bad and vice versa…so toughen up! It’s for your own good!
3. Confidence: This is a very important yet tremendously overlooked area. You need to have total and utter confidence in yourself. Know beyond a shadow of a doubt that everything you do will always work out for the best, no matter what happens.
I’m truthfully AMAZED at the sheer amount of people out there who have the true desire to be Entrepreneurs and are putting up content on the Internet to market their businesses, but simultaneously they are wasting their time and are literally shooting themselves in the foot because they are saying this or that with NO REAL CONVICTION. Marketing like that is WEAK and it’s with very little wonder why they are not attracting leads and cash flow into their businesses…
4. Constant Learning: You should always be in a state of learning, keeping an open mind to new concepts and strategies. Never ever stop learning and continue to buy new books, courses, CD’s, attend seminars, webinars, etc…even if you THINK you know it all, because you NEVER will. Look, the amount of knowledge you have is directly correlated to how much you’reearning right now. I don’t care what anyone else says. If you REALLY want to make a million dollars, then get up off your butt and LEARN how to do it! It’s literally that simple yet time and time again people rely upon their company, their product, their system, their upline and even their coaches for success. It’s a nice idea and believe me, I used to think like that but I’m letting you know right now…YOU and YOU ALONE are responsible for learning and executing on the information that will give you the results you are seeking…period.
5. Asking The Right Questions: Asking the right questions will get you the right results. All day long we’re thinking. What is thinking? All day long we’re asking ourselves QUESTIONS. That’s what initiates thinking is a question. The problem is, most people ask themselves very crappy questions: “Why am I so poor?”, “How come he makes $50,000 a month and I can’t even make that in a year?”, “Why am I so stupid?”, “Why can’t I afford to buy this course?”…you get the point. For goodness sake, CHANGE the question: “What actions can I take to become wealthy?”, “How can I make this better?”, “How can I get my hands on this course?”, “What can I do to learn this?”…do this and you will EMPOWER yourself to a new way of thinking.
6. Helping Others: The more people that you help to become successful, the more successful you will become. NEVER approach business with only YOU in mind. I know this sounds weird, after all…aren’t we all in business to make money to improve OUR lives? That’s a good question and I can answer it by saying this: “What goes around, comes around.” It’s so cliché but it’s true. You probably have already discovered that the universe responds in kind to how much we give or contribute.
Many times people have fallen victim to the ‘Me, Me, Me!’ mentality forgetting that business revolves around the most important thing of all…OTHER PEOPLE. People are smart, the moment they feel that you’re only in it for yourself or if you come across as being selfish or as a blow-hard…they’ll go somewhere else. Always look for ways to help people; everything you do should be a win-win situation. You do this and you’ll be riding the waves of success in a very short period of time. One more thing…I encourage you to regularly donate a percentage of your income to charity.
On A Final Note… I really just want to impart you this…you need to know what to spend your money on to make sure you don’t spend it all on useless stuff. Become clear on the difference between an asset and a liability.
Author of Rich Dad Poor Dad, Robert Kiyosaki gives a very simple explanation of the two:
1. An asset puts money in your pocket.
2. A liability takes money out.
If you haven’t read Rich Dad Poor Dad already, I highly recommend you pick up your own copy. Assets are things that make you money, like a profitable network marketing or direct selling business. Liabilities are the things that cost you more money than they make you, like a car or owning a boat. Now I’m not saying that you should not buy all those luxury items like sports cars, yachts and big TVs (I know I love those things), I’m just saying to make sure you have the assets to back up your lifestyle. If you can really establish a HABIT with what I’ve handed over to you in this chapter and truthfully take to heart this knowledge, I can promise you that you can change how you think and behave TODAY even if you’re not making $50,000 a month yet.
Get this down my friend, because if you do…that type of money is often not too far away… (Source by: Coach Eduard Reformina)
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MLM in Philippines – What Is Attraction Marketing?
Kung matagal tagal ka nang nasa network marketing industry, malamang ay alam mo na na isa sa malaking problema ng mga networkers ay kung paano magkakaron ng maraming prospects at kung paano makakapag recruit ng downlines.
Ang karamihan ay nahihirapang makapag recruit gamit ang mga old schools prospecting techniques tulad ng mga:
- Prospect listing and bugging your friends and relatives to join your business
- talking and dragging strangers to opportunity meetings (Pusakalan)
- Printing flyers and placing cards on car windshields
- Putting stickers on bus, Taxi and Jeepneys
Sa panahon ngayon, ang mga methods na ito ay considered ‘dinosaur’ prospecting methods. Sasayangin mo lang ang oras at pagod mo kung gagawin mo padin ito dahil hindi na effective ang mga techniques na ito.
Ang tanong ay paano masosolve ng Attraction Marketing concept ang mga problemang ito.
Una sa lahat, ang attraction marketing ay isang concept na kabaligtaran kung ikukumpara sa mga karaniwang itinuturo ng karamihan.
Sa attraction marketing, di mo na kaylangang alukin lahat ng taong makakasalamuha mo.
‘Di mo din kaylangan na hikayatin ang mga kakilala, kaibigan at kamag anak mo na mag join sa business mo.
‘Di mo din kinakaylangan na kumbinsihin yung mga taong negative or hindi interesado sa networking
Ang mga ilan sa matututunan sa attraction marketing ay…
- Kung paano mo magagawa na ang prospect mo mismo ang maaatract sayo ng parang magnet.
- Paano mo magagawa na ang kakausapin mo lang ay yung mga tao na interesado sa inoofer mo
Pero isa sa kailangan mong maintindihan ay sa attraction marketing, may mga bagong skills, strategies at principles kang kailangang aralin.
Kaya kung gusto mo talagang matutunan ang attraction marketing, kailangan na open minded ka at willing ka talagang matuto ng mga bago.
(After all, the mind is like a parachute – It only works when it is open)
The Network Marketing has changed since the internet emerged. Napaka skeptic na nang mga prospects ngayon dahil araw araw na silang tad tad ng mga advertisements at spams na may mga linyang…
“Join The Best Opportunity”
“Pioneering Company Be The First Millionaire”
“Extra Income 2-3 Hours Per Day 50,000 per Month” etc. etc.
Ang ilan pang advantage ng Attraction Marketing ay:
- You will learn how to brand yourself as an expert in the network marketing industry. Let’s face it – the network marketing industry has a negative connotation dahil sa mga cheap at annoying tactics na ginagawa ng karamihan.
- With attraction marketing you will learn how to become the hunted instead of the hunter. Di ka na ulit hahabol at mangungulit ng mga prospects dahil ikaw na mismo ang kokontakin nila para mag-join sayo. Sa madaling salita, your prospects will like you, respect you and trust you enough to want to sign up as your downline.
- Pinaka importante sa lahat, you will learn how to generate endless leads prospects. Karamihan sa mga taong nag jojoin sa network marketing ay huminto na lang or nag quit na lang dahil naubusan sila ng mga taong kakausapin at aalukin ng kanilang opportunity. Maaaring nakausap at naalok na nila lahat ng kakilala nila at hindi na nila alam kung ano ang susunod na gagawin nila. With attraction marketing, you will learn internet marketing methods to generate prospects for you in autopilot kahit natutulog ka. Di ka na ulit magkaka problema na mauubusan ka ng prospects at di ka na mauubusan ng mga taong iiintroduce sa business opportunity mo.
May nag email sakin kahapon at nag tanong kung mag wowork daw ba talaga ang Internet Attraction Marketing? Ang sagot ko: Only if you Study it and Apply it!
Learn attraction marketing kung desedido ka na iaaply mo lahat ng matututunan mong mga strategies at kung committed ka talagang maging successful. Don’t learn it if you are not willing to go “all the way” in your network marketing business! Make sure you will TAKE ACTION! (Source: Eduard Reformina)
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“KUROT O DAKOT”
(Hindi ako ang sumulat ng article na ito, nabasa ko lang)
Kurot or Dakot? The Chinoy Businessman Principle
Ano ‘yung Kurot Principle? Ay, ang ganda nitong Kurot Principle na ito. To better understand this, I will tell you a story of a person na balak bumili ng cellphone worth P1,000. Nagkataong mayroon siyang P100,000 na savings. Puwede ba siyang bumili ng cellphone? Puwede, kasi yung P1,000, kurot lang ‘yon sa kanyang savings. May pangalawang taong balak bumili ng cellphone. Ang bibilhin niya ay worth P1,000 din. Mayroon siyang savings sa bangko na P1,000. Bumili siya ng cellphone. Anong tawag dun? Dakot na ‘yun! Dinakot lahat ang pera niya! May pangatlong tao, balak bumili ng cellphone, pero walang savings. P1,000 lang naman ‘yung bibilhin niya. Bumili siya. Anong tawag ‘dun? Utang na ‘yun! Ang tanong: ano’ng prinsipyo ang ginagamit mo sa buhay mo? Kurot, dakot, o utang? Magtataka pa ba tayo kung bakit tayo naghihirap o baon sa utang? Ang gagaling nating dumakot! Ang gagaling nating umutang! Gusto mong yumaman? Starting today, matutong kumurot. Kapag may bibilhin, dapat kinukurot lang! Nagkakaintindihan ba tayo? Kapag ginawa mo ito, pangako, yayaman ka. Pag-aralan nating muli ang mga pinakamayayaman sa Pilipinas, ang Chinoy. Again, bakit sila mayayaman? Ang gagaling nilang… kumurot! Tayo ang gagaling nating… dumakot! Sasampolan kita…
————————–——— Pinoy vs. Chinoy Businessman ————————–———
May dalawang negosyanteng nagsimula ng kanilang negosyo, isang Pinoy at isang Chinoy. Ang capital nila pareho ay P100,000. Sa unang buwan, si Pinoy, kumita ng P10,000. Ano ang iniisip bilhin? Cellphone. Si Chinoy, kumita rin ng P10,000. Ano ang gagawin niya? Idadagdag niya sa puhunan. So magkano na ngayon ang puhunan ni Chinoy? P110,000! Si Pinoy, P100,000 pa rin, pero may bago siyang cellphone. Ang ganda! Ituloy natin. After a few months, maganda ang takbo ng negosyo. Si Pinoy kumita ng P50,000. Ang Pilipinong may P50,000, ano ang balak bilhin? Bibili siya ng home theater, DVD, at LCD TV! Si Chinoy, kumita rin ng P50,000. Anong gagawin niya? Idadagdag uli sa puhunan niya. Magkano na ang puhunan niya? P160,000 na! A few months later pa, ang Pinoy kumita ng P150,000! Ang Pilipinong mayroong P150,000, ano ang balak bilhin? Second-hand na kotse o pang-downpayment sa bagong kotse. Ang Chinoy, may P150,000. Ano’ng gagawin niya? Idadagdag sa puhunan! Magkano na ang puhunan niya? P310,000! Buwan-buwan, si Pinoy kumikita. Dagdag siya ng dagdag ng gamit. Magkano ang puhunan niya? P100,000! Si Chinoy, buwan-buwan kumikita. Ano ang ginagawa niya? Dagdag ng dagdag sa puhunan niya. One day, Chinoy was able to save P1 million! So ginawa niya, he approached one supplier and said, “Supplier, kung bibili ako sa‘yo ng worth P1 million, bibigyan mo ba ako ng discount?” Hulaan mo kung ano ang sasabihin ng supplier. “Of course, ang dami mong bibilhin, kaya bibigyan kita ng additional 5% discount!” Ngunit naisip ni Chinoy, “Hindi naman yata maganda na sa akin lahat ang 5%. Ang gagawin ko, bibigyan ko ang customers ko ng 3% discount at sa akin na lang ‘yung 2%.” Ibig sabihin, bababa ang presyo ng kanyang mga ibinebentang produkto. It just so happened na magkatabi ang tindahan ni Chinoy at ni Pinoy. Pareho sila ng mga produktong ibinebenta. Given the situation, kanino kayo bibili? Kay Chinoy, because it’s cheaper. Ano ang mangyayari sa negosyo ni Pinoy? Malulugi na. Kasi mas mahal ang kaniyang produkto. Ano ang gagawin niya? Ibebenta niya ‘yung kotseng nabili niya ng P150,000. Sino ang bibili? Siyempre, ang maraming pera, si Chinoy. Tatawaran pa ni Chinoy ang kotse ng P80,000. Dahil gipit na si Pinoy, kahit palugi ay ibebenta na rin niya. Si Chinoy ngayon ay nagkaroon ng kotse na murang-mura lang! After a few months, mauubos din ang P80,000 ni Pinoy. Ano ang susunod na gagawin ni Pinoy? Ang home entertainment niya ay ibebenta na rin. Magkano? P20,000 na lang. Sino ang bibili? Si Chinoy. Darating ang araw na pati ang cellphone ni Pinoy ay ibebenta na niya. Magkano niya ibebenta? P2,000 na lang! Isang araw, magsasara na ang negosyo ni Pinoy. Ano ang gagawin niya? Malamang, magtatrabaho na lang siya kay Chinoy. Ito ang kuwento ng bansang Pilipinas! Naalala mo pa ba noong araw, mas mayayaman ang mga Pinoy kaysa sa mga Chinese. Bakit nagbago? Ano ba ang problema natin? Dakot kasi tayo ng dakot! Sila, kurot lang ng kurot! Mayroon kaming naging participant before na nagsabi, “Sir, hindi naman totoo ‘yan! I know a Chinoy, he drives a BMW. That’s a P5 million car! Kurot ba ‘yun?” Malamang kurot ‘yun! Noong binili niya ‘yun, mayroon na siyang P100 million na savings! So kurot lang ‘yun! Nandiyan ka pa ba?
————————–– Isang Kahig, Isang Tuka ————————––
Saan ka makakakita ng mga taong isang kahig, isang tuka? Saan? Sa squatters area? Magtigil ka! Gusto mo’ng makakita ng mga taong isang kahig, isang-tuka? Sa Ortigas, sa Makati, may makikita ka. What do I mean? Kapag hindi ka sumuweldo ng isang buwan, mabubuhay ba ang pamilya mo? Kung wala kang credit card, kung mawalan ka ng trabaho ngayon, ilang araw ang aabutin para mabuhay ng matino ang pamilya mo? Kapag nawalan ka ng suweldo, patay ka! Ang mga Chinoy, kahit hindi muna kumita o magnegosyo, mabubuhay ng maganda. Bakit po? Kasi many years ago, kumahig sila ng kumahig at tumuka lang konti. Kaya marami sa kanila ngayon, tuka na lang ng tuka. Maraming Pinoy, kapag hindi tayo kumahig, wala tayong tutukain. Ito ang masakit–sometimes, kahit matanda na tayo, kahig pa rin tayo ng kahig. Gaano karaming Pilipino ang 60 years old na ay trabaho pa rin ng trabaho? Puwede ba, simula ngayon, kumahig ka nang kumahig at iwasan munang tumuka. I-deprive ang sarili ng kaunti. Ang pinakamasakit sa lahat ay ito–one day, you want to work, but you cannot work. You are already old. Why? Nagpakasasa ka kasi noong bata ka pa. Inubos mo na lahat ng lakas at kalusugan mo sa bisyo. Tanong: Masama ba’ng bumili ng mahal? Sagot: Hindi! Basta kinukurot lang! Kapag nakakita ka ng kasamahan mong naka-Nike shoes, huwag mong husgahan kaagad iyong tao! Malay mo, kinurot lang niya iyon. At the end of the day, what is happening to other people is not important. What’s more important is what is happening to you. The Bible says in 1 Thessalonians 4:11, “Make it your ambition to lead a quiet life. You should mind your own business and work with your hands, just as we told you.” Tinamaan ka ba or natuwa ka ba gaya ko? i-SHARE mo din sa iba para tamaan din or matuwa din sila. Malay mo, kailangan lang nila marealize ang mga bagay na’to. Isang pindot lang, nakatulong ka ng hindi mo sinasadya.